Missing Piece in life….
Did you ever feel that something is missing in your life?
Did you ever felt emptiness inside you?
Do you feel lonely?
Are you searching for your missing piece?
At some point in our life we have had these feelings. And we have been searching for that missing piece in our life. We meet someone and we might think that it’s our missing piece but after sometime we realize that it’s not our missing piece, we start searching again. But sometimes all our hard work end up in vain and we feel frustrated. Unhappy and lonely….Most of the time it’s difficult to figure out what is the missing piece…Is it a person…Is it something we want to do…Is it a good job…a good house…Or WHAT?…
Probably the missing piece is inside us and we just have to find it..How can someone else fill us up….Unless we are happy and content with our life what can someone else do…We have to be whole from within..No one else can be the missing piece.
Is it Love, Lust or Infatuation?
Have you ever felt the urge of having sex when you are around someone? When you feel that it is love, are you sure it is love? Or might it be lust?
Infatuation is the state of being completely carried away by unreasoning passion or love; addictive love. Infatuation usually occurs at the beginning of a relationship. It is characterized by urgency, intensity, sexual desire, and or anxiety, in which there is an extreme absorption in another. …
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Infatuation
“When infatuated, we are thrilled, but not happy, wanting to trust, yet suspicious. There are lingering, nagging doubts about our “partner in infatuation” and their love for us. We’re miserable when they’re away, almost like we’re not complete unless we’re with them. It’s a rush and it’s intense. It’s difficult to concentrate. And most infatuation relationships have a high degree of sexual charge around them. Somehow being with them is not complete unless it ends in some type of sexual encounter.”
Infatuation can almost be equal to Lust. It is neither Love nor lust. But both relations quite often start with infatuation. An infatuation is a driving force that makes people break up and realize big changes in their life. An infatuation could be the beginning of a life-long relationship, but it can also be a temporary crush.
Skin the color of cinnamon
His eyes light up and I melt within
Feels so good it must be a sin
I can’t stop what I started
I’m giving in
He brings life to my fantasies
Sparks a passion inside of me
Finds the words when I cannot speak
In the silence, his heartbeat is music to me
Christina Aguilera- Infatuation
To write this article I googled around and above are extracts from articles I found interesting.
So let me share what I feel or what I think infatuation is….
Infatuation is just a feeling. While real love involves devotion and commitments while mostly infatuation revolves around sex. The moment we meet the person we are involved in the only thing that goes through our mind is sex. Infatuation can be defined as a strong overpowering desire towards someone. Infatuation sometimes occurs at the beginning of a relationship where sexual desire is given the most importance. During infatuation we expect the same feeling in return. I think love is an emotion while infatuation is a feeling…
I think about you always…
You are the only person on my mind….
Every waking moment I think about you…
I think of all the good times we have had…
Whenever I see you the only thing I imagine is you….
Lying here right next to me…
It feels so good…
To be with you..now and always…
When I think of all the good times we have had…..
I don’t want this to end….
I want to explore the colours of life…
RED has already become a part of it…
Is this love, Lust or Infatuation…
I don’t know…
Whatever it is…
I am enjoying it…
Are You Pressuring Your Child?
This is the time of the year when parents keep their fingers crossed and wait patiently for the reports. Even though the marks are shown the real satisfaction comes only when the reports are given.
Most of the parents would not settle for anything less than a B. Some have fits when they see a C on their child’s report card. Well a D and an E is out of question. So is this how it really should be? Should we put so much pressure on our kids? Should we have such high expectations from our children?
Most of the time parent’s have unrealistic academic expectations from their children. We should all know that all the children are not capable of getting straight A’s. Sometimes these high expectations affect the child’s emotional and physical well being. They try too hard to satisfy their parents.
Me being a parent myself and for someone who has not done well in school I personally feel that it is Ok for a child to get a C or a D. While my 14 year old is good with language she is not good with numbers and she struggle in Math’s. I still remember how hard it was for me to do Mathematics, physics and Chemistry. She always find it difficult to study from the book while she is very good in taking things into her mind if someone explains it to her well. She remembers things that she sees rather than things that she read. She has a photographic memory. She was telling me recently that she remembers the Biology lessons very well because the teacher gave them Power point presentations on most topics.
We should not expect all the children to get A’s by studying in school from the book. Parents as well as teachers should know that different methods work for different children. We can never force a child to study. We can force them to sit with the book, but we can never put anything into their mind.
Parents who put this kind of unhealthy pressure on their kids need to have discussions with teachers and counselors about the negative consequences of their unrealistic expectations. Please don’t force your child. Do not try to full fill your own dreams through your child.
